Ghosting:

Something that really truly cannot be understood until you experience or even do it (even only partially) yourself. The conclusions I’ve made about it are the following.

1. Ghosting is really dispicable cruel human behaviour

2. Some of the nicest kindest caring people are capable of doing it.

3. Many people who ghost someone do feel…[Read more]

That is not love. That is obsession. I like to think love is more simple and mature. If that makes sense…

Well, indirectly Desmond Morris makes the argument that these problems were uncommon in primative human relations but instead a result of the conflicts that arise from humans aggregating. In any case though, it’s say love in the modern human c…[Read more]

jakelafort wrote:

Unseen, swinging and polyamory are different. For you romance is an ardent and intense attraction. That seems a viable definition albeit subject to elaboration. Polyamorous have that with partners instead of a partner. I have little doubt that the psyche of those who opt for polyamory is atypical. Regardless of the arrangement…

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Love is a wicked game

I sure enjoy shaking the tables and chairs in a dark club…..

Unseen, swinging and polyamory are different.

For you romance is an ardent and intense attraction. That seems a viable definition albeit subject to elaboration. Polyamorous have that with partners instead of a partner. I have little doubt that the psyche of those who opt for polyamory is atypical. Regardless of the arrangement any relationship…[Read more]

@JakeLafort I suspect polyamorous relationships are not romantic relationships at all. They may be close as friends, but any romance is characterized by an ardent and intense attraction, which is why they tend to be selfish. They may love each other in polyamorous pairings, but it is a cousin of friends with benefits. Their relationship may have…[Read more]

Reg, check out this version.

Problems include jealousy, sexual inadequacy, sexual disfunction, insecurity, posessiveness, violence, highly dominant partner and strange sexual fetishes.

That is not love. That is obsession. I like to think love is more simple and mature. If that makes sense…

Just don’t get ghosted by someone you used to love. Then I guess you will know what love isn’t but you have to lose it first just like the millions of people who watched the video. I love it when my lover is away for a few days or weeks…..and then comes back…….to gouge away….maybe stay all day if she wants to.

Sitting here wishing on a…[Read more]