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True love is to be found only in a healthy parent/child relationship and in the relationship between true friends.

But can men and women ever truly be “just friends?”…

Is beauty real? Um, Yah….of course!!!!

Is beauty real?

We clearly perceive it. If one can see and fails to perceive it probably there is some neurological disorder in play or severe depression. We know in women that a particular ratio of hip to waist to breast is seen as most desirable. We know human faces have to have near symmetry but not perfect symmetry to be seen as attractive…[Read more]

Would this be as stunning not in black and white?

Puppy dalmatian heart nose?

Over priced black forest cake

Colorful polluting salt farms

Can a stud with a cosmic smile really be a nice guy?

Can anything be beautiful yet not complicated?

Yeah, that is probably a wise decision. Some people don’t take sexual rejection well. They just assumed I would have sex with them whenever they decided it was time. When I declined for whatever reasons they got hurt or upset. One started saying I must be gay so I agreed, yeah  that must be it. The other, who was a good friend became vindictive…[Read more]

_Robert_ wrote:

You know it is possible to turn down a blow job, unseen. OK who am I kidding.

Actually, if you’ll remember, in another thread I related several examples of sex I walked away from because the females were drunk.

But my ghost wasn’t drunk, just crazy, as it turned out.

You know it is possible to turn down a blow job, unseen. OK who am I kidding.

Poor James was haunted. Great song!

@Davis, I agree we have made it more complex. But it CAN and SHOULD be simple. Yet I can only speak for myself.

@Unseen, I’m sorry but that is funny shit. And for future reference,  girls who go down that fast, are likely going to require ghosting.

Davis wrote:

Ghosting: Something that really truly cannot be understood until you experience or even do it (even only partially) yourself. The conclusions I’ve made about it are the following. 1. Ghosting is really dispicable cruel human behaviour 2. Some of the nicest kindest caring people are capable of doing it. 3. Many people who ghost s…

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Ghosting:

Something that really truly cannot be understood until you experience or even do it (even only partially) yourself. The conclusions I’ve made about it are the following.

1. Ghosting is really dispicable cruel human behaviour

2. Some of the nicest kindest caring people are capable of doing it.

3. Many people who ghost someone do feel…[Read more]

That is not love. That is obsession. I like to think love is more simple and mature. If that makes sense…

Well, indirectly Desmond Morris makes the argument that these problems were uncommon in primative human relations but instead a result of the conflicts that arise from humans aggregating. In any case though, it’s say love in the modern human c…[Read more]

jakelafort wrote:

Unseen, swinging and polyamory are different. For you romance is an ardent and intense attraction. That seems a viable definition albeit subject to elaboration. Polyamorous have that with partners instead of a partner. I have little doubt that the psyche of those who opt for polyamory is atypical. Regardless of the arrangement…

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Love is a wicked game

I sure enjoy shaking the tables and chairs in a dark club…..

Unseen, swinging and polyamory are different.

For you romance is an ardent and intense attraction. That seems a viable definition albeit subject to elaboration. Polyamorous have that with partners instead of a partner. I have little doubt that the psyche of those who opt for polyamory is atypical. Regardless of the arrangement any relationship…[Read more]

@JakeLafort I suspect polyamorous relationships are not romantic relationships at all. They may be close as friends, but any romance is characterized by an ardent and intense attraction, which is why they tend to be selfish. They may love each other in polyamorous pairings, but it is a cousin of friends with benefits. Their relationship may have…[Read more]

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