Belle Rose

  • Belle Rose started the topic Fired in the forum Advice 6 hours, 23 minutes ago

    I’m leaving you forever

    You failed me and lied to me

    You promised you knew better

    It was all a bunch of mindless chattering

    You wasted years of our precious life

    Revolving in circles only adding to our already enormous strife

    Each and every one of you acted like you cared about me

    But your smiles and emphatic reassurances ended up being…[Read more]

  • @Matt

    A 16 year old, on the other hand, should understand what is happening and why it is wrong, and is also far more mentally developed than the 6 year old.

    Not true Matt. I didn’t understand what happened to me until I was 30. Even as a teenager who should “know better “….I didn’t. Because it was just “normal.” I didn’t know any different. And…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 3 days, 13 hours ago

    I guess I just figure I’ve had more training than most people on how to deal with this stuff. I’ve lived every day of my life with a crisis plan constantly in my head for both my self and my son…As we speak my son and I are back in the ER and he is likely to be re-admitted….He assaulted me and my sister today and threatened suicide….Hitting…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 4 days, 9 hours ago

    @Noel but what kind of plan could I possibly come up with? I can’t control her. That’s something I’ve learned after years of therapy. I can’t control situations or people. All I can control is myself. So trying to “plan” for her to fuck me over is sort hard. I don’t know how to do that.

    But you know the saying you can’t con a conartist? Well….

  • @Unseen…????? WTF? How did you derive that from my comment? Lol

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 4 days, 19 hours ago

    @Strega

    RE: However, you’ve absolutely got to decide what you’d do if she stole from/assaulted/endangered you and your son.

    I wouldn’t let that happen…You’re scaring me lol

     

     

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 4 days, 21 hours ago

    That sounds really good to a “typical” person but she is not typical like that. And talking about her having police and being evicted would be a major trigger for her right now given the fact that she has gone through so many people throwing her out of their house or stealing from her when she didn’t do what THEY wanted (like if you don’t give me…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 4 days, 23 hours ago

    What sort of plan would you suggest? I guess I just know I’m already 1000 steps ahead of her lol…

  • Absolutes are a false security blanket that give the illusion of universal moral obligation. Most people don’t live up to their own ethical standards of others anyway so what difference does it make? Lol

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 5 days, 9 hours ago

    My sister is JUST like me… in so many ways…I have watched her growth over the last 2 years. We’ve been through thick and thin together.

    Noel’s right. We have to hit bottom and she hit it hard. Now she’s been trying to climb up but there was nothing for her in NM. It may as well be a 3rd world county.

    She is meeting with the same…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 5 days, 22 hours ago

    And she’s determined to stay that way.

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 5 days, 22 hours ago

    She is off drugs. She’s been sober for a while

  • Belle Rose posted an update 6 days, 4 hours ago

    Be a Unicorn.

    Not a twatopotamus 😉 lol

  • Belle Rose started the topic Enabling in the forum Advice 6 days, 7 hours ago

    So yeah. I’ve taken in my drug addict sister. Most people including my therapist are telling me to be really careful…and warning me against enabling…

    Enabling…

    As if something I could possibly do could or would make her worse than she already is? This woman has been through hell. What’s a roof and some food going to do to make her…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 7 hours ago

    @regthefronkeyfarmer

    Abusers are toxic. If you can spot them then you can avoid them.

    At risk of sounding…..really sick and twisted….what if I have become the toxic one? That’s how I feel right now. I think all of these years of bullshit has turned me into a monster and it’s….terrifying.

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 7 hours ago

    @Diane

    At the risk of sounding preachy I have to say it’s never good when one’s description of a person, especially one with whom an intimate relationship is likely, contains the phrase “He just got out of prison…”

    I know…and that’s really the fucked up part. I KNOW BETTER! And yet I always seem to do stupid shit like this. Truly…I’m EXACTLY l…[Read more]

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 7 hours ago

    @Strega

    what was he in prison for, if it’s not too personal a question?

    I don’t know honestly but he’s been in and out of prison most of his life. He’s 43, and he’s spent 22 years locked up…you do the math…I know for a fact a lot of it is related to drug use, theft, etc and all that comes with that lifestyle. He allegedly tried to kill his ex-wife.

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 17 hours ago

    @toms oh without question he has ASPD…Not even a doubt in my mind whatsoever.

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 22 hours ago

    I think emotionally I’m stuck at 13 sometimes, lol

  • Belle Rose replied to the topic Me Three in the forum Politics 6 days, 22 hours ago

    @Diane

    Arch said to me once, “It must be tough, being glass and steel at the same time.”

    I miss him too :,(

    Honestly I didn’t know the things that happened to me were abuse until I was about 30 and then it still took a few hard fought years to really process it all….

    I think my original anger spawned from the fact that I check the CNN news to…[Read more]

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