Unseen

_Robert_ wrote:

You know it is possible to turn down a blow job, unseen. OK who am I kidding.

Actually, if you’ll remember, in another thread I related several examples of sex I walked away from because the females were drunk.

But my ghost wasn’t drunk, just crazy, as it turned out.

Davis wrote:

Ghosting: Something that really truly cannot be understood until you experience or even do it (even only partially) yourself. The conclusions I’ve made about it are the following. 1. Ghosting is really dispicable cruel human behaviour 2. Some of the nicest kindest caring people are capable of doing it. 3. Many people who ghost s…

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jakelafort wrote:

Unseen, swinging and polyamory are different. For you romance is an ardent and intense attraction. That seems a viable definition albeit subject to elaboration. Polyamorous have that with partners instead of a partner. I have little doubt that the psyche of those who opt for polyamory is atypical. Regardless of the arrangement…

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@JakeLafort I suspect polyamorous relationships are not romantic relationships at all. They may be close as friends, but any romance is characterized by an ardent and intense attraction, which is why they tend to be selfish. They may love each other in polyamorous pairings, but it is a cousin of friends with benefits. Their relationship may have…[Read more]

In romance, you want to HAVE this other person FOREVER. You don’t want to LOSE them to someone else. This is why so much romance ends with pregnancy. Did you know that the #1 cause of death of pregnant women isn’t complications of childbirth? It’s murder!

The male sees the woman’s loyalty turning away from to this looming intruder, weakening his…[Read more]

jakelafort wrote:

I suspect a proponent of polyamory will say that the exercise of power in a romantic relationship is the antithesis of love. Love elevates the romantic partner. It does not put her in shackles. Sex it will be said is a desire or need that is independent of the partner’s bond. Giving each other permission to have sex with o…

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jakelafort wrote:

Yes, that is true..parents for their kids. Interesting take Unseen, bout power in polyamorous. I think polyamorous people would laugh at that notion.

Well, then perhaps they aren’t romantic relationships at all, but friendships as I define them. Eh? I’m right either way.

jakelafort wrote:

Love is sharing half of your favorite meal. It is getting as much satisfaction from their pleasure as your own. It is feeling their pain…not running…doing utmost to relieve their pain. It is honesty except when honesty is on balance a bad decision. It is a form of intimacy in which you reveal things to the other you will not oth…

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Jody Lee wrote:

Hmmm…Love is tricky, yeah? But I think there can be true love between partners minus the obsession.

Their passion bond collapses into a deep friendship.

_Robert_ wrote:

You don’t think romantic love can also encompass true friendship, especially after years and years?

As years go by, romantic love often improves into friendship. Many couples stay together, loving each other as friends, even after the passionate sexual bond has dissolved.

Mine is named Squeaky:

Davis wrote:

By contrast, cats are stone cold killers who do only WTF they feel like doing if you like it or don’t. My little kitty is on the alert for anything in her purview she might kill. She will actually chase a fruit fly around my apartment hoping for a chance to kill it.

Yeah because when you come home from work, you don’t want your bud…

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jakelafort wrote:

Not sure about that Unseen…it seems like i have read a number of instances in which ancient peoples are thought to have been wiped out by disease. There is a theory that may have occurred with Neanderthal lacking immunity to diseases carried by Homo Sapiens out of Africa which is i suppose analogous to Europeans giving native a…

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There are ways we have actually DEvolved. My cat eats food off the floor, walks around in her litter box and then licks her paws, even licks her asshole and none of that makes her sick. She obviously has a far more effective immune system than we do. I suspect our neanderthal ancestors also had more effective immune systems.

_Robert_ wrote:

8 lives to go. My uncle Charlie didn’t care for cats. He used to say real men kick cats when the women aren’t looking. Then again Charlie didn’t care for much of anything. He was a muscle bound intimidating pro boxer with a crooked nose so no one really complained about his attitude to his face directly. There is a certain secto…

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_Robert_ wrote:

Looks like that cat gets bit at around 00:18 if you step through the video. I did have a sweet calico cat that killed a foot long coral snake in our garage but suffered a fatal bite in the process. “Tuffy” was a hero to us.

Well, there’s that famous Native American saying: “Sometimes the magic works and sometimes it doe…[Read more]