@robert
” I gave up trying to be liked or even respected and was fine with just trying to be fair and high performing. ”
Me too, once I had been diagnosed with what used to be called Asperger’s Syndrome. (2012)
I don’t so much offend people as bore them rigid. It’s accurate to say I have the social skills of a turnip. This includes having no small talk and an inability to ‘read’ non verbal social cues.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((9))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
On topic:
I turned 73 this month. Retired in 1999 because I could . It was called ‘taking a package’ and was actually voluntary redundancy. For me that meant a full year’s salary (tax free) as well as my super.
Australian Public Service for over 30 years. Contributed 10% of my salary for the last decade. This was matched dollar-for-dollar by my employer.
By pure serendipity, I worked with a bloke who had written a couple of books on Government Super. I listened to him, doing as he advised, which was:
Because I had the choice; Convert half of my super to a fully indexed pension. ‘Roll over’ the other half, into investments.
The small pension plus redundancy and leave entitlements were enough to live in modest comfort until age 65. I then qualified for a part age pension, also fully indexed. That meant I could live comfortably AND still have my investments. Since that time my income has allowed 30% of nett income as discretionary spending.
Caveat:
Apart from differences between countries , I ‘m atypical even in my country;
Divorced, no kids. Own my house and car and do not use credit. I have a debit card with an overdraft facility which I’ve never used.
Also a recovering alcoholic (18 years sober) and ex smoker (17 years) Nor do I gamble or go out with dancing girls.
-
This reply was modified 3 years, 10 months ago by Glen D.