Are ethnic jokes inherently wrong, racist, or offensive?
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April 15, 2021 at 3:41 pm #37124
Reg the Fronkey FarmerModeratorHe has expressed ideas about how the masculine spirit is under constant attack and how chaos equates to females. If only men would learn the rules. “Stand up straight”, “Compare yourself with who you were yesterday, not with who someone else is today” (Huh?). “Don’t hassle skateboarders” and “Pet the cats you meet on the street”. Once men master these rules, they will be responsible individuals and as the subtitle of his book says, they will have the antidote to chaos.
In Canada he engaged in the slippery slope fallacy of arguing that new human rights legislation for transgendered people was an infringement of his right to free speech and having to use terms like “gender identity” was somehow repressing him. He started talking in terms of “long established cultural norms” which is just an iteration of the Christian trope “traditional family values”. He said, in his refusal to use gender pronouns that (I paraphrase) having to use those terms reminded him of totalitarian regimes who attempted to set ideologies by controlling the words citizens could use. He continued to say “I am not going to be a mouthpiece for language that I detest, and that’s that”.
The 2 new stray cats in my back garden are staring at me now. One looks like Fat Freddy’s Cat, one of my childhood hero’s and whose philosophy helped make me the man I am today! (no, not itchy all the time). I will feed them as soon as I tidy my bookshelves.
April 15, 2021 at 3:46 pm #37125
TheEncogitationerParticipantDavis,
Woke people can even include university jock frat boys who call out their friends when they make rape-jokes or engage in rape-culture discourse.
I may have lived a somewhat sheltered life, but the only time I’ve heard rape used as a punchline is in reference to men getting raped by other men in isolated, controlled custody e.g. in prison, in the wilderness, on a ship, etc. I have never heard female rape portrayed as funny. Yet I never hear the Woke complain about jokes regarding male rape, which, second to child abuse, is probably the most underreported of crimes because it is that shame-filled to be a victim.
It’s not remotely a homogeneous group of embittered people. It can include people who only point out the most serious cases of bigotry and harmful language. I personally contribute to a comedy writing website that has many woke users who ridicule bigotry. Ridicule helps (a lot). But I’m sorry Eco…you aren’t going to convince the entire biggoted population of Texas to tone down their harmful language through humour alone. That’s fucking ridiculous.
Never said that ridicule was the only tool against bigotry, only that ridicule is better than responding to bigotry with government censorship and mob violence.
Even progressive and liberal people can use harmful language. You may have noticed that one mission of wokeism is to reduce harmful stereotypes. Eco…stereotyping woke people as serious, humourless, angry warriors…is just doing one of the very things that woke people are aiming to lessen. Consider not doing that.
Thought about it…do it anyway. The Woke lack humor like a thug, so they get treated as lacking humor like a thug. Wokesters gonna Woke. Wokester is as Wokester does.
Do some woke people go too far? Yes (people of all ideological persuasions and movements can go too far)
Do they go too far as a collective? Of course not. That would be a ridiculous exaggeration.
Are the aims of wokeism reasonable? If even slightly reducing the burden that marginalised people have to deal with every day means having some people confront uncomfortable things about themselves…be unreasonable then I don’t know what is reasonable.Wokesters treat the people they claim to speak for as shrinking violets and museum pieces with no moral agency or resilience. Nothing could be more condescending and racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or hierachical than that.
You’re just threatened by what they are doing and react by painting the entire movement with emotive sound-clips of a few people going over-the-top. It’s similar to say 30 years ago when people fighting to allow gay people in the military and trying to get the public to be more accepting of homosexuality and accepting more women in the work place were considered angry humourless radicals.
The LGBTQ people of the Stonewall Uprising and of the Libertarian Party founding in 1972 only stood against anti-LGBTQ laws and the specific lawmakers, law enforcers, and Mafia exploiters who oppressed them. They didn’t move on to call for abolishing police and to destroying whole cities in the name of their cause. That makes those LGBTQ people very different from the Woke.
The reaction to wokeism is often more extreme than say, even the behaviour of the minority of extreme woke activists who go too far. It is a conservative reaction by uncomfortable people who prefer to let things stay as they are, maintain the status quo and let marginalised people deal with all the grief and baggage.
Again, “gently, gently with the plates…”
Wokeism isn’t going away. Much of their language is literally being adopted by teenagers (just as when I was a teenager narratives about equality and tollerance were making their rounds and we picked them up [sometimes making our grandparents groan]). That doesn’t mean it was fully incorporated into our beliefs and actions but it certainly toned down things to make life somewhat less miserable for marginalised people.
Teenagers think “Uh-Uh” and “Yeh-Huh” are not only words, but legitimate philosophical arguments, so not a good example. And guess what? When Wokesters have kids, they’ll rebel like every other generation. What will that look like? The Second Second World War? I shudder to think…
April 15, 2021 at 4:12 pm #37126
Simon PayntonParticipantHe said, in his refusal to use gender pronouns that (I paraphrase) having to use those terms reminded him of totalitarian regimes who attempted to set ideologies by controlling the words citizens could use.
But he didn’t refuse to use them. He said he would use them out of courtesy, but wouldn’t be forced to use them. I can see his point.
He continued to say “I am not going to be a mouthpiece for language that I detest, and that’s that”.
If that is to be taken at face value, then it’s too strong, and he shouldn’t have said it in my opinion.
JP isn’t one of these people who rail against transgender rights, to my knowledge.
April 15, 2021 at 6:48 pm #37128
DavisParticipantJP isn’t one of these people who rail against transgender rights, to my knowledge.
Then you haven’t read or watched much by JP. Which makes it even more shocking that you love this guy.
April 15, 2021 at 7:08 pm #37130
DavisParticipantI don’t see how, in any way, shape or form. He’s specifically against totalitarianism. That’s why he speaks out in favour of free speech.
Simon…all sorts of people speak out in favour of free speech. Across the political spectrum. It isn’t outstandingly admirable. You shouldn’t get credit for doing something you should be doing anyways. Defending free speech should be a simple prerequisite in life (like being against murder or paying your taxes) not a particularly amazing quality. This guy has done three things, which in three very different ways have shown he doesn’t give a shit about free speech when it gets in his way. How can you admire a guy for defending free speech like this? I don’t understand your stubbornness on things like this. Evidence really points to the contrary yet you seem to think the sky is green.
April 15, 2021 at 7:46 pm #37131
DavisParticipantEnco I starting tuning out after the third overgeneralization and misdirection you made in your reply. I’m not interested in discussing a topic with someone whose preconceived ideas cannot be changed under any circumstances and keeps repeating the same lines after reasonable critique. Whatever. You win. Woke people are awful humourless tyrannical zombies out to destroy whoever disagrees with their radical extremist agenda. Zheesh
April 15, 2021 at 8:16 pm #37132
Reg the Fronkey FarmerModerator@Simon – you can take his words at face value when you also have the context behind the utterances. I have found what I believe to be the article from a reputable site that I read at the time. I think it might even have made a Sunday School story. I remember it as I have previously used it to explain the “slippery slope” fallacy where many “woke” arguments are called out by the right as potentially leading to a curtailment of free speech or where they invoke Godwin’s Law.
April 15, 2021 at 8:57 pm #37133—
ParticipantIf that is to be taken at face value, then it’s too strong, and he shouldn’t have said it in my opinion. JP isn’t one of these people who rail against transgender rights, to my knowledge.
He literally spoke out against adding gender identity and expression as protected characteristics to a senate comittee. His reasons? A factitious load of nonsense he made up himself about how he could be jailed for using the wrong pronouns. How did he point that out? “Um, excuse me good folks, but a minor oversight you may have overlooked.”? No. He went on a fear mongering rant. And when that sparked international interest, he leaned into it. To this day, he’s still on about it taking passive-aggressive swipes even at legislation barring conversion therapy for minors or unwilling participants.
A couple of years ago, an unfortunate young transgender man had to go to court against his own father so that he could pursue treatment for his gender dysphoria. The court sided with the young man (and his mother). To protect the young man, a gag issue was ordered barring the young man from being identified. This includes the parents identifying themselves as his parents while publicly speaking about this case. It makes sense. We don’t disclose the names of youth who have committed crimes that they might be able to move forward less burdened as adults. Why can’t we offer the same protection to a young man’s privacy around his medical needs and to shield him against being outed and public harassment (which sadly is a common occurence in situations like these)?
The father repeatedly violated the court order, speaking to news outlets about his son referring to him as his daughter, identifying himself by name, showing pictures of his child, speaking about the case and so on. He did this over the course of the years between the court decision and now, multiple times. Finally, he was arrested for it.
Now people are pretending the father was arrested for misgendering his son, and Peterson is fanning that flame. Peterson is acting like he predicted this back when he was talking nonsense about bill C-16. C-16 doesn’t apply in this case, but even if we were generous and allowed that similar principles would apply in this case (which is a stretch), it simply isn’t true. Peterson pointed to a section in the original decision talking about how the father misgendering his son would be considered family violence. But that isn’t what the father was arrested for. That order had already been stricken down by a higher court last year. It was violating the gag order. Even the father cops to that, albeit, possibly just for a reduced sentence.
So, Peterson is wrong. That in and of itself isn’t bad, except for a few things:
i) All the facts needed to correct his mistake are at his disposal. I know this because he tweeted the actual reason the father was arrested—a matter of fact, not opinion—and waved it off without reason. He is either lying, being intellectually dishonest, or lazy.
ii) When he is publicly wrong about this stuff, we’ve see the impact it has in terms of riling people up in the belief that their freedoms are under attack when transgender people having the identical rights someone like Peterson has had his whole life.
iii) The worst: there is a young man at the centre of this who is stuck in a situation that is already very difficult, stressful and more than a little heartbreaking. Why the hell is an older man with a massive audience pettily weighing in publicly to make the situation even harder for him? It isn’t to defend freedom of speech. That is either a delusion or a lie.
He doesn’t rail against transgender rights? Even a teenager trying to seek medical care for gender dysphoria with a modicum of peace, security, and privacy is being twisted into an assault against the general population’s rights despite facts not supporting that conclusion. Peterson may pay lip service, but the reality is, he targets transgender rights in a way that pits us up against the general population and he does it dishonestly. So what are we supposed to call that then? Hmmm?
April 15, 2021 at 9:40 pm #37134
DavisParticipant+1 Kristina
April 15, 2021 at 9:47 pm #37135—
ParticipantI may have lived a somewhat sheltered life, but the only time I’ve heard rape used as a punchline is in reference to men getting raped by other men in isolated, controlled custody e.g. in prison, in the wilderness, on a ship, etc. I have never heard female rape portrayed as funny. Yet I never hear the Woke complain about jokes regarding male rape, which, second to child abuse, is probably the most underreported of crimes because it is that shame-filled to be a victim.
Rape jokes are often in the vein of dead baby jokes to the limited extent I’ve encountered them. The joke itself isn’t the intended humour; it’s the response from the audience. ‘Why would you say that?’ ‘Because I can and it’s funny to watch you squirm.’
Re: jokes about male rape, while it may not be the biggest issue on the radar these days, it’s definitely an issue that gets pointed out. Honestly, this was within ten seconds of searching:
Never said that ridicule was the only tool against bigotry, only that ridicule is better than responding to bigotry with government censorship and mob violence.
Government censorship? I am sure it happens in some contexts. It’s always been the way. But it seems most of the censorship we see these days is more of a capitalistic thing. People made social issues a part of doing business and businesses have to decide how they want to respond to market pressure.
April 16, 2021 at 7:57 am #37136
Simon PayntonParticipantI know this because he tweeted the actual reason the father was arrested—a matter of fact, not opinion—and waved it off without reason. He is either lying, being intellectually dishonest, or lazy.
It is a shame for the young transgender person that all this has happened to them. But isn’t it hard to call JP dishonest, when he comes straight out with the facts?
One of the problems I see is that there’s too much hostility, apparently on both sides. JP has put himself in the middle of a war. Now, I think it would be a failing of his if he maintains hostility on his side.
What do you think he should do differently? I’m here to be enlightened, but you haven’t demonstrated to me what he’s doing wrong, particularly.
April 16, 2021 at 8:02 am #37137
Simon PayntonParticipantHe has expressed ideas about how the masculine spirit is under constant attack and how chaos equates to females.
Once men master these rules, they will be responsible individuals and as the subtitle of his book says, they will have the antidote to chaos.
On the one hand, it’s unfortunate for JP to equate chaos with femininity, and order with masculinity. On the other hand, it’s only a metaphor, and I think the only reason it’s wrong, is that it upsets woke people.
Taking a wider point of view than just the single dimension of political correctness/incorrectness, I think it’s a useful metaphor. Both chaos and order are necessary in our lives. It’s necessary to learn how to integrate them.
I heard a line in a song recently, something like “without chaos, nothing is created; without order, nothing exists.”
April 16, 2021 at 8:09 am #37138—
ParticipantIt is a shame for the young transgender person that all this has happened to them. But isn’t it hard to call JP dishonest, when he comes straight out with the facts?
He’s literally saying things that are not factual, so no, it isn’t difficult.
One of the problems I see is that there’s too much hostility, apparently on both sides. JP has put himself in the middle of a war.
He didn’t put himself in the middle. He stood himself to the right of a human rights movement that was seeking the same rights he already had. The exact. same. identical. rights.
What do you think he should do differently? I’m here to be enlightened, but you haven’t demonstrated to me what he’s doing wrong, particularly.
He should stop spreading falsehoods and fear mongering with regard to human rights for transgender people. I don’t get where you are lost on this.
April 16, 2021 at 10:34 am #37139
Simon PayntonParticipantHe’s literally saying things that are not factual, so no, it isn’t difficult.
Yes, I can see your point about that, if JP is saying that the father was arrested for misgendering his child. That would be needlessly harmful, not to mention untrue, and he needs to sort his ideas out.
This is the situation as I see it, and it’s not a simple issue of JP vs. transgender rights, although that’s what it can look like. For JP, the C-16 bill about compulsory use of gender pronouns (is that right?) represents, as a case in point, a step too far, the inherent authoritarianism of hard-left politics. He’s a traditional liberal. For transgender people, presumably, JP’s campaign represents just more abuse and discrimination, as per usual.
So, it’s no wonder if there is hostility involved.
April 16, 2021 at 11:25 am #37140—
ParticipantThis is the situation as I see it, and it’s not a simple issue of JP vs. transgender rights, although that’s what it can look like. For JP, the C-16 bill about compulsory use of gender pronouns (is that right?) represents, as a case in point, a step too far, the inherent authoritarianism of hard-left politics.
Except he’s wrong about what the law says. It’s been pointed out to him by even the Canadian Bar Association.
He’s a traditional liberal. For transgender people, presumably, JP’s campaign represents just more abuse and discrimination, as per usual. So, it’s no wonder if there is hostility involved.
Except his stance isn’t even consistent. The ‘compelled speech’ issue doesn’t come up with transgender rights alone. It’s only more prevalent with transgender rights because gendered pronouns are a ubiquitous unlike references to race, ethnicity, sexual orientation (etc.). But the issue comes down to grammar rather than an inconsistency in legal rights/ protections and their application.
It’s worth noting there is no law pertaining to pronouns. In his initial talks, Peterson was referencing the OHRC (which already had gender identity protections in place when he made his first video—that’s what he would have been held to when working for U of T). He read a section of the OHRC’s guidelines on non-discriminatory practices which cited failing to use someone’s preferred pronouns as possible discrimination.
In Peterson’s defence, reading that gives the impression that a person is required to refer to others by pronouns, and that those pronouns must be their preferred pronouns. But that interpretation makes little sense. The law doesn’t require a person to you pronouns ever. In the situation where you are referring to someone by pronouns, they should be their preferred pronouns.
If he had continued to read the guidance provided by the OHRC, he’d have seen that it also states using someone’s name is always respectful, and that ‘they’ can be used in cases where the pronoun is unknown. What about non-standard pronouns such as ‘xe’? The OHRC specifically stated that it had no guidance there.
Why wouldn’t if have guidance? The content Peterson was looking at wasn’t actually law. It’s guidance on how the law might be generally applied. People like employers or even the laity can read it to get a broad understanding of what non-discrimination may look like. This guidance is determined by relevant case histories and legal theory. At the time of Peterson’s first speech, there were hardly any cases to draw on specifically with regard to pronouns. I know one of the cases they used as a framework was Angela Dawson versus the Vancouver Police Department. I can’t remember what the other case was off the top of my head. In Dawson’s case, it only went as far as a tribunal in BC. The case involved Ms. Dawson being misgendered and being denied medical treatment. Even in that decision, not every case where Ms. Dawson was referred to by her deadname or the wrong pronouns was deemed discriminatory. Also, the pronouns in play were ‘he’ and ‘she’.
To date, I am not aware of any case regarding pronouns that has risen beyond the level of a tribunal. I am very confident not a single case has made it to the Supreme Court which would be the ultimate arbiter on constitutionality.
That said, Peterson’s claim didn’t necessarily require things escalating that far. I don’t recall his exact wording, but it was something along the lines of if a tribunal rules you did discriminate by refusing to use someone’s pronouns, you could be hit with a financial penalty/ ordered to pay remedy. If you refuse to pay, you could go to jail. Is that true? Well, let’s assume the first and second parts happen. You refuse to use someone’s preferred pronouns, and you are hit with paying financial remedy. If you feel the decision is wrong, the correct course of action is to appeal, not to simply not pay. However, that can be involved and expensive, so maybe you can’t pay. Even then, I believe you’re supposed to seek some sort of hardship something or other, but let’s set that aside. The person you are supposed to pay has to go through multiple involved steps to force you to pay, and none of them involve anyone being able to send you to jail. At least not in Ontario. I checked.
So what about this dad in BC (I know you already acknowledged this case, but it ties in to the above)? Isn’t that what Peterson was still warning about generally? You can’t step out of line on transgender rights issues or speak up or else they will throw you in jail? No. Bill C-16 pertains to discriminations in areas covered by The Code at the federal level (e.g. federally regulated employers). It also pertains to certain criminal matters which you cannot violate just by misgendering someone. The equivalent provincial legislation deals with the discrimination side of things, predominately. The young man wasn’t in court filing a discrimination claim based on his gender identity. He was there to be cleared to begin medical treatment. Canada already has an existing body of law pertaining to minors being able to consent to medical treatment. It has nothing to do with gender identity or transition apart from the fact that medical transition is a medical procedure. The gag order was also not some specific mechanism crafted with the emergence of transgender rights. There are plenty of cases where confidentiality, privacy or other sensitive information is kept private. There are also cases where a person is ordered to stop a specific activity that pertains to the case at hand.
To be honest, I could keep going. There are more things to point out. And that’s even staying away from the issues which are less clear cut, like ‘parental rights’. I mean, for me the issue is quite clear; however, in that case it’s not a strict matter of facts being correct or false.
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