Shooting, Killing, Murder!!!
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February 18, 2018 at 5:13 pm #7909
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ParticipantI know a lot of people would disagree with me, because we try to pacify the situation by saying that men are unnecessary sperm donors who aren’t really necessary in the child rearing process, but I know (and science shows) that boys without fathers do suffer and developmentally are disadvantaged compared to those with strong healthy fathers. As much as I do for my son there are certain things that I can never be as his mother. Kids need the ying and the yang.
February 18, 2018 at 5:32 pm #7910
StregaModeratorKids without fathers isn’t an American thing. The rest of the ‘developed’ world also has young boys growing up without fathers. And yet we don’t see schoolchildren being shot regularly (and in the US it IS regularly) in those countries. It belies the fatherless boy theory.
February 18, 2018 at 5:55 pm #7911.
ParticipantI’m not making the claim that absent fathers CAUSES school shootings. But the presence of good fathers would prevent them. The presence of good fathers prevents violent crime in young boys. That is a fact.
February 18, 2018 at 6:09 pm #7912
Reg the Fronkey FarmerModeratorHere is what Australia did when they had a mass shooting….over 20 years ago.
February 18, 2018 at 6:34 pm #7914.
ParticipantThat worked for THEM! They live in a wealthy nation that actually takes care of its people.
What about the ghetto? Where everyone has a gun? You think most of those places they guns are even registered? Lol….
February 18, 2018 at 6:39 pm #7915.
ParticipantWhere I come from there is gun violence almost daily. You don’t see us saying “Take away the guns!!!” Fuck no we say “Where can I buy a gun?” Not everywhere has pearly streets and smiling faces.
February 18, 2018 at 6:40 pm #7916.
ParticipantMy sister just told me of another homicide in her city. Just this morning….and last night….and the night before…..
February 18, 2018 at 6:55 pm #7917.
ParticipantNo one even cared about our school shooting a couple of weeks ago.
February 18, 2018 at 8:44 pm #7918
Reg the Fronkey FarmerModeratorWhat about the ghetto? Where everyone has a gun? You think most of those places they guns are even registered? Lol…
There are ghettos and poverty in Australia too, just as there are single parents and people with a mental illness. But they don’t have regular mass killings. Most of the unregistered guns are used in gang crimes and not in school shootings. In the USA culprits bring their own legally purchased ones or their parents’ ones to engage in their murder sprees. They are just too easy to acquire.
There is no reason to think that the rest of the world is any better a place to live. The urban parts of Australia are not much different to the urban parts of the USA. Both have their ultra-wealthy 1%. It is just in most of the rest of the “western” world we do not have general gun ownership. Criminals have them and they mostly just kill each other with them. Even here in Dublin an ongoing feud has killed over a dozen of them in the last year.
I can’t remember the exact case here but there was an island in the Pacific (I think it was) where for generations suicide was unheard of. Then one day a young man committed suicide and left a note to say he saw it as the only solution to his problems. Within 3 years several other young men had followed suit. What had happened was that a way of “solving a problem” was made available to everyone. It is similar in America where disturbed people and people who bear a grudge against society know that “school shooting” is an option open to them. I suspect it is a case of “suicide by cop” for many of them while giving the world the finger.
It will keep happening as long as guns are given out so freely without any check-ups. It would seem that most of these school shootings are carried out by people with legally held guns – (I have not researched that point).
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February 18, 2018 at 11:40 pm #7920.
ParticipantI agree we need to change our gun laws. I’m all for that. But what I’m saying is there’s a LOT of other issues that are getting completely ignored. For example what was the reason why this kid got expelled? If he was depressed why did he have a gun? Why didn’t the adults in his life step up and help him? Why don’t we have a mental health system that actually helps people? I’ve seen it firsthand. This kid was a total threat to himself and others and should have been locked up. But they didn’t deem him “dangerous enough.” That is the problem. In the United States once you turn 18, it is very difficult to get any type of mental health services until you actually do try to kill yourself or someone else. People just turn a blind eye otherwise. There were so many things that set this kid’s life on a really bad trajectory and it’s really sad that no one had the fucking balls to intervene. There were so many things that could have been done for him that just weren’t. What are we gonna do about that? What are we gonna do about the hundreds of thousands of boys just like him that may not go and shoot up a school, but maybe they’ll start a fire for fun. Or start selling drugs. Beat up on their girlfriend….
and what are we going to do about the other victims of gun violence where young black and Hispanic boys get killed DAILY… just because it’s gang related doesn’t mean kids don’t get caught in the crossfire. They do. And they have. Or they start playing with daddy’s gun and accidentally shoot themselves or someone else..
We need gun reform but we also need to look beneath the surface of the problem and address the other deeply disturbing issues in our society.
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February 19, 2018 at 12:36 am #7922
DavisParticipantBelle, I think you have made an important point. Western countries don’t invest enough time and resources into mental health. And the USA, with its lack of universal health care, and in many states, barely funded social programs…that Americans (especially poor ones) are hit the hardest by it. As well as their families. And that those constantly ignored and left to brain rot, may become homicidal. Throw guns into that picture and here comes disaster.
So yes, a lack of mental health awareness and public funding is horrible. But that is not what “this is all about”. It’s a major part of it, but, as Strega said, people suffer mental problems in other countries (in Canada you can refuse treatment) and yet mass shootings are rare, and not just shootings but mass stabbings or mass murder in general. Take away the tools of fast and easy murder and it makes it a whole lot harder to pull it off, especially when you develop a sudden rage or have a snap homicidal episode. This isn’t to mention the fact that not all people with serious mental health problems go murdering everyone, even those who have been far more mistreated than this boy. Ones who can just as easily get guns. And then, not all people who commit mass shootings have mental problems. Ideological ones like woman hating or religiously motivated ones are far far far more prominent. In that case would we say:
This isn’t about guns…it’s about religion!!!!
No. That would be ridiculous. Certain states of the USA have multiple problems ranging from: underfunded social problems, dismal mental health care, high levels of poverty and homelessness which contribute to high levels of crime, easy access to tools of instant murder and especially in the last couple decades…a sudden shift towards ideological extremism (on both sides). And yes, there is a high prevalence of single parent families, as well as broken families. All of these mean mass shootings are inevitable. And all of these factors contribute towards it. However, in places like Belorussia or Kosovo, where they face the same problems, yet not have easy access to assault weapons…you don’t see many mass murders.
It’s not all about rapid firing guns, but it is an essential element which is relatively easy to stop…if people are intelligent enough to want to stop it. That, in tandem with better funding to programs, attacking mental health, homelessness, poverty, under-education, religious extremism…will certainly help things. However it is not “all about mental health”.
February 19, 2018 at 2:04 am #7925
_Robert_ParticipantFor the most part these killers are middle class white boys with way too much free time, living out their revenge fantasy. They sit in class dreaming about blowing the mean kids and teachers away. For some reason they believe they are justified. And then the next kid hears the news and starts his fantasy. Like all things teen-age related, it’s a generational fad that started in Columbine.
In May 2002, the Secret Service published a report that examined 37 U.S. school shootings. They had the following findings:
- Many attackers felt bullied, persecuted, or injured by others prior to the attack.
- Most attackers had access to and had used weapons prior to the attack.
- Most attackers had difficulty coping with significant losses or personal failures. Moreover, many had considered or attempted suicide.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Columbine_High_School_massacre#Goth_subculture
February 19, 2018 at 7:21 am #7928.
ParticipantFor the most part these killers are middle class white boys with way too much free time, living out their revenge fantasy.
um. No, this kid in FL was an orphan, adopted and then lost BOTH his adoptive parents. His last name is Cruz. And he was HOMELESS. Why do you think he was staying with some random people he knew through a friend and they’re stupid enough to be like “Sure you can lock your assault rifle in a box in your room and you have the key….even though you’re depressed as fuck and you’re making YouTube videos about being a professional school shooter….”
Oh that’s RIGHT!!! They didn’t KNOW about those videos because they didn’t think to do a background check on a kid who owns a gun like that at 19???
I know it’s not “all about mental health.” I am saying it’s all about having no stable family.
February 19, 2018 at 7:32 am #7929.
ParticipantAs a forensic psychologist in training, my own clinical perspective is that this boy was a WALKING red flag. And the FBI fucked up by NOT doing their job when they were informed about him.
February 19, 2018 at 12:46 pm #7930
_Robert_ParticipantCruz is atypical from the usual demographic profile. That may be why the FBI/law enforcement failed to prevent. Maybe the profile is expanding now because of the notoriety of these acts. Not good. Except for the key parts of feeling bullied and failing (as in getting expelled from school). These are common and that is the key, I think.
Who doesn’t feel bullied at some point?. We made it a federal crime in the minds of the youths.
In any event there seems to be huge anti gun rights wave this time. I saw a meme that said “sending thoughts and prayers on the loss of your assault rifles”. Clever. Even if they ban sales of new guns, there are 100’s of million under the beds. A 9mm hi-cap Glock pistol is almost a deadly as a AR-15 and easier to hide. Will this start up a huge black market? Will organized crime take over where gun dealers left off? They will see this as an opportunity.
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