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TheEncogitationer replied to the topic The Republican Party is succeeding because America is not a true Democracy. in the forum
Politics 4 years, 3 months agoReg,
Several big problems with this man’s thesis: The U.S. elected 45 Presidents under our existing Constitutional framework without a January 6th occurring after each Election.
Also, even with The Supremes having a majority of “Conservative” Justices, they still didn’t want to hear any of Trump’s claims of voter fraud and didn’t want to…[Read more]
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_Robert_ replied to the topic The Republican Party is succeeding because America is not a true Democracy. in the forum
Politics 4 years, 3 months agoUnfortunately, I am starting to think Unseen is right about a pending authoritarian takeover. I don’t have a fucking clue about what a solution would be. Lots of people must think they have very little to lose and much to gain by living under a racist, nationalist dictatorship. Again, I have no idea to see how they would benefit.
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TheEncogitationer replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoDavis,
One thing your Mother might not want to tell her friend is: “Oh, don’t worry! Me and Ol’ Nick are just like this! *Crosses Fingers*” 🤞😁
I sometimes tell that to customers whose total comes up to $6.66 or something added to that. The reactions can be funny. 😁
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Simon Paynton replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoI think it might be cruel for your mother to reject her friend.
I believe that clinical depression is the source of the idea of hell for the human race. It’s just a dark and horrifying corner of the human mind.
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Davis replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoHey Unseen,
If it were I…then I would do that (I have super strict limits with people in general and religion is definitely one of them). My mother is French Canadian, they are INSANELY polite (as you may know). They have a pretty hard time confronting people with personal beliefs and emotionally difficult confrontation. But I would imagine at…[Read more]
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Unseen replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoYour mother should just tell this lady “If we’re to be friends, consider this topic closed. What I believe is none of y9ur business as what you believe is none of mine. Bringing this up further threatens to destroy our friendship. I value it enough not to do that. Do you?”
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_Robert_ replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoSimon Paynton wrote:
It is sad to imagine someone so tormented like that. She’s probably a caring person, if she is so concerned for the welfare of your mother.Around here churches and preachers push this fear of hell constantly and tell their flock to go save their friends, family, everyone from the punishment of their god. It’s an age-old r…[Read more]
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Simon Paynton replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoIt is sad to imagine someone so tormented like that. She’s probably a caring person, if she is so concerned for the welfare of your mother.
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Davis replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoIt’s possible Simon. It could be something she had been worrying about and came to the surface or it could be a recent struggle with mental health or both. In any case it is quite sad.
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Simon Paynton replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoIf this person has suddenly “gone wrong”, it might not just be Covid related. There might be some other underlying reason for it. Clinical depression is full of visions of hell.
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Davis replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoMy parents are both virtually life long atheists. I believe they were baptised for social convenience but never attended weekly church or had any familiar religious activities. I was also baptised because their friends being my “god parents” meant so much to them. Apart from me visiting the church a couple times out of curiosity…that was also…[Read more]
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PopeBeanie replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoForgive me for assuming the possibilities, but two things come to mind when I hear that kind of story. One is that old age often brings with it various forms of mental deterioration where one loses a sense of recent memories and relies more on past memories in daily conversation. The other is a fear and obsession of one’s own impending death.
In…[Read more]
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TheEncogitationer replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoDavis,
Your Mother sounds pretty convinced and firm in her non-belief. I doubt she could be “blackmailed” into belief, but her friend is a mess.
Did she know your Mom was a non-believer, then just out of nowhere get concerned that your Mom was going to Hell? That would make no sense if she was firmly convinced in her beliefs.
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_Robert_ replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoDavis wrote:
She isn’t mentally ill. Depressed, perhaps. I wouldn’t blame someone who honestly believes in hell for being terrified of a friend burning for eternity. Any caring person who honestly believed in this shit would be terribly upset about it. Hell is the most grotesque religious concept ever devised. It is what makes Christianity and… -
Davis replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoShe isn’t mentally ill. Depressed, perhaps. I wouldn’t blame someone who honestly believes in hell for being terrified of a friend burning for eternity. Any caring person who honestly believed in this shit would be terribly upset about it. Hell is the most grotesque religious concept ever devised. It is what makes Christianity and Islam two of the…[Read more]
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Simon Paynton replied to the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoIt sounds like the lady might be mentally ill in some way, maybe clinically depressed.
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Davis started the topic Emotional Blackmail in the forum
Humanism 4 years, 8 months agoMy mother only has one religious friend who has been fairly tame with her religiousness in general (as she lives in a very secular society). She brings up God in passing (like “I will pray for this person”) but that is it and there was no attempt to convert anyone. The other day she calls up my mother and is in tears and inconsolable. She was…[Read more]
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TheEncogitationer replied to the topic The Christian Right is in decline and it’s taking America with it. in the forum
Politics 4 years, 9 months agoReg,
I shed no tears whatsoever for the decline of the Christian Right and only regret that it hasn’t happened faster in my own community. I can’t count the numbers of times people come into the store giving out bible tracts and wearing T-Shirts with thoughtless scriptures like: “Iron sharpens Iron” from Proverbs 27:17. (Uh, no. It’s ha…[Read more]
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Ivy replied to the topic The Christian Right is in decline and it’s taking America with it. in the forum
Politics 4 years, 9 months agoI am actually very afraid for this country. The few crazy assholes are ruining it for the rest of us with their conspiracy theories and lies. They may be smaller in numbers but as long as these fringe extremists types exist in the intensity and propensity to violence, our country isn’t safe. Remember…how many men did it take to ram a plane int…[Read more]
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